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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship ☆ Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship ☆ Mira Kirshenbaum - Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship, Too Good to Leave Too Bad to Stay A Step by Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship Mira Kirshenbaum I Love You But I Don t Trust You an international bestselling author and world renowned therapist draws on years of counseling experience to lead readers through relationship ambi

  • Title: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship
  • Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
  • ISBN: 9780452275355
  • Page: 444
  • Format: Paperback

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  • ☆ Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship ☆ Mira Kirshenbaum
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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship


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  1. Mira Kirshenbaum Is a well-known author, some of his books are a fascination for readers like in the Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship book, this is one of the most wanted Mira Kirshenbaum author readers around the world.

  2. I imagine most readers of Mira Kirshenbaum s Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay are leaning towards the going Most of us tend not to mess with the good, or spend time analyzing why we feel bliss rather we seek out deeper understanding only when something hurts Human nature, I suppose Take notice only when life becomes a pain But as I read Kirshenbaum s easy to absorb guide on fencesitting relationships, I realized this is a good read even for the best of relationships Even for those currently be [...]


  3. You ll still be confused as hell, but at least you will feel normal Situation after situation, I could relate to.


  4. Insightful Crazy Depressing Hopeful Clarity Shocking Confusing A really good read for people really fucked up in their marriage.


  5. The premise of this book is that trying to weigh the options of leaving or staying in a relationship is a losing gamebut it s also what most of us do when we feel uncertain about the relationship we are in A relationship can feel good one day and bad the next, so it is almost impossible to weigh the good against the bad Instead, this book takes the approach of asking a series of questions Some questions focus on what we might think of as minimum qualities for a relationship When the relationship [...]


  6. If u can relate to the title then this is a must read I read it in 3 days While i left the book still feeling 50 50 about the relationship, it was a logical, well informed 50 50 rather than a previously confused state.Over time that 50 50 lead to a big STAY, with the help of other books like Hold Me Tight by Dr Johnson, Dealbreakers by Sharon Marshall and 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman.


  7. I m going to quote a top review My wife and I have been married six years and have had marital troubles for nearly a year However, we are taking very concrete steps to try to address them and we re making good progress We re learning a lot about ourselves and each other, about personalities and temperaments and what influences them Now we are better able to appreciate how those factors manifest in our day to day behavior It is hard work, but we both agree that in the end it s worth it regardles [...]


  8. This book was sitting in my queue for over 5 years, and I FINALLY got to read it All I can say is that if I had read the book when I first discovered it and went through all the diagnostic questions laid out in the book, then I would have identified myself as being in the relationship ambivalence state a long time ago and did something about it a lot sooner The book goes through a series of diagnostic questions to provide clarity on whether an iffy relationship is too good to leave or too bad to [...]


  9. I still hang on to this book even though thankfully I haven t needed it in a really long time It is so good when you re dealing with some ambivalence regarding a romantic relationship If you need to remember the good things, it helps to point that out and then to remind you of them If you really do need to get out and remembering the bad things is the way to do it, it helps remind you of that I have given this book as a gift than once It may seem like a strange book to be passing out but I thin [...]


  10. When you are ambivalent about a relationship, you close down and spend all your energy defending your heart Reading this book made me realize that I have an amazing partner in life The questions make you analyze those things that make a relationship strong despite the curveballs that life throws us I think this is a good read for people thinking about marrying and really helpful for those of us who temporarily forgot what made their hearts sing in the first place The best part I think is that yo [...]


  11. I liked the cut dried, black white approach to this book Author is forward about what she thinks is wrong or right in a relationship Sometimes, I want someone to just tell me, strait up, hey, that stinks or hey, that s ok I won t always agree, but I wnt feedback Somehow, the way she portrays certain couples, she is pretty specific when she says, this couple probably shouldn t be together and this one should That doesn t mean it s easy for me, the reader, to really decide whether 1 I fully agree [...]


  12. this books is a really good guide for those trying to figure out if they should stay or go in a relationship it starts you out with a scenario, followed by question s which build upon each other and lead up to your answer stay or go it is a combination of self help and workbook if you re one of those that keep falling into the gray of the relationship, this book will help you keep things black and white , which will help you be objective when evaluating what can be a major life decision a good [...]


  13. This an excellent guide for people who are stuck thinking about leaving their relationship but haven t been able to come to any conclusions Mira throws out the balancing scale approach to decision making how do you weigh up hundreds of pieces of ever changing information anyway in favour of a clinical diagnostic approach This is a genius move because it means that just one critical piece of information can effectively make the decision for you Which makes a lot of sense if your husband is the be [...]


  14. This book was amazing in helping me decide what to do about the ambivalent relationship I have been in for over 5 years If you ve been juggling whether to stay in a relationship or leave, seriously.pick this book up give it a whirl It defines issues in a diagnostic fashion instead of weighing pros cons.


  15. i have recommended this to several women STUCK in relationships that were exactly that too good to leave translated dont wanna be alone and too bad to stay unhealthy or violent or going nowhere in every case, they found the courage to leave forging a new life and often finding new, true love never once looking back.


  16. Dud un par de veces de si agregar este libro a mi estanter a digital del libros p blica, y m s a n dud si deb a compartir mis impresiones abiertamente Al final decid compartirlo porque hay dos temas de los que casi nadie habla, pero que a todos nos causan problemas en alg n momento u otro de nuestra vida adulta Los dos temas son el dinero y las finanzas personales y las relaciones personales amorosas, de amistad, familiares Saber que no se est solo es muchas veces lo nico que se necesita para se [...]


  17. A friend talked about this and I decided to take a look It s an excellent book that is intended to be a relationship diagnostic tool She breaks down issues into some key deal breakers an obvious one physical abuse written for people who are still in a relationship despite physical abuse , and then continues to break it down to subtle things that erode a relationship over time a partner struggling for power control, someone who refuses to address difficult topics, etc The tone is pragmatic, the [...]


  18. A little lingo cutesy in places, could use better indexing, and falls short of the step by step promise in the subtitle although that looked like an overpromise to begin with And I recognize there s a danger in codifying something like this, both from the standpoint of the person who breezes through their unexamined life and someone too broken to recognize hazards to their physical safety But for the overthinkers and self flagellators, parts of this book are a boon, even post relationship.


  19. Reminding us to avoid the trap of false dichotomies column A good, column B bad, whichever list is longer dictates what you should do , this book offers a way to examine a relationship any relationship, not just with your S.O and identify patterns that are likely to result in problems, and figure out how many of the issues apply to your situation and to what degree.A thoughtful and powerful way to begin thinking about and fixing your relational patterns.


  20. I found the book to be well written and easy to read The information was presented objectively Diagnostic questions, examples, real life stories helped put things in context I think the book is useful regardless of your relationship status It helps identify positive and necessary aspects of relationships as well as thoughts on how they can be improved and warning signs The author seems to have a plethora of relevant experience that made the book very credible.


  21. given to me by a fellow therapist about relationsip ambivalence the questions are probably the most helpful given that its the first book I ve seen on a subject that seems to have little written, its probably the best out there from what I know but it seems to lack some depth I was hoping it might invite exploration of the underlying emotions desires longings That being said, it s probably quite helpful for the decision making , cerebral view.


  22. It s a refreshing spin on the how to make a relationship work book This one asks questions to help you clarify whether or not it s worth it and why basically helping you find peace with whatever decision you ultimately make I d recommend it, if nothing else to help people stop thinking in circles.


  23. Only the second self help book I ve read and the first I ve finished The mere fact that I read this book says less about my relationship than about my interest in finding vocabulary to talk about my relationship.


  24. Very easy reading with a great flow written in easy to understand conversational style One of the best books I have read Many great insights into myself and my relationships A step by step approach to uncovering how you really feel.


  25. Recommended reading by my grad school professor It is really well spoken advice Considering I ll need to dispense such advice as a counselor later, I know this will go on my shelf at the office.


  26. Helped propel me out of a bad relationship should be required reading for anyone on the fence about a personal relationship, romantic or otherwise.



  27. This book helped me move out of ambivalence and see that my marriage was the source of my unhappiness I recommend this to anyone who feels stuck and unhappy in a relationship.


  28. extremely helpful not just for me but for others I have lent it to It may just clarify what you already know on some level, or it may open your eyes to a new way of seeing the situation.


  29. very helpful and practical self help book for people who are stuck in relationships and confused about whether staying or leaving ,this book helps you make that decision for yourself by finding the clarity you need.Granted ,the book will give you that clarity but still I think that this life changing decision of staying or leaving a relationship shouldn t be taken lightly or based on yes or no questions that was given in this book or based only on logic because honestly relationships are much c [...]


  30. I always find myself on the fence in my relationships and I can never truly understand why that is This book helped me to make a very painful, but hopefully correct, decision to end a relationship that I was fence sitting on It has been 6 months since that conclusion, but I routinely come back to the things I wrote down about each part of this book and it helps me remember the things that just weren t right This book can be a huge help to you, if you let it.